Fruits of the Spirit: Growing in Self Control

Rev. Leta Arndt Behrens

Sermon Scripture: LUKE 9:51-62

⁵¹When the days drew near for him to be taken up, he set his face to go to Jerusalem. ⁵²And he sent messengers ahead of him. On their way they entered a village of the Samaritans to make ready for him; ⁵³but they did not receive him, because his face was set toward Jerusalem. ⁵⁴When his disciples James and John saw it, they said, “Lord, do you want us to command fire to come down from heaven and consume them?” ⁵⁵But he turned and rebuked them. ⁵⁶Then they went on to another village.
⁵⁷As they were going along the road, someone said to him, “I will follow you wherever you go.” ⁵⁸And Jesus said to him, “Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests; but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.” ⁵⁹To another he said, “Follow me.” But he said, “Lord, first let me go and bury my father.” ⁶⁰But Jesus said to him, “Let the dead bury their own dead; but as for you, go and proclaim the kingdom of God.” ⁶¹Another said, “I will follow you, Lord; but let me first say farewell to those at my home.” ⁶²Jesus said to him, “No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.”

Sermon Text: 

Throughout this series on the fruits of the spirit we have often been able to enhance our understanding of one of the fruits by going to the greek language and learning what the nuance of a word was that got lost in translation. So I thought I would do the same thing here, with the final fruit of self control. And what I discovered was that self control in greek… is self control. No nuance, no extra or double meaning, just the same idea of control thyself. The only additional meaning it takes on is within the context of the whole passage from Galatians that this fruit too,the one of self control, is a spiritual connection to God and only given through the grace and mercy of God.

One of the most acute memories I have on learning about self control is being in the back seat of the car squished between my brother and sister. I usually had to ride in the middle see because they would get into those litle scuffles of the slapping and poking each other when in close quarters. I may have participated in this as well, you know like once, seeing as how i was the wise and mature one 🙂 My dad has a big gift in patience, but this was not something that took long to annoy him and he would sternly say. That’s it. Sit on your hands. We would groan and then put our hands kinda under our legs and he would say, all the way and we would make sure our rears were firmly holding our hands in place. This not only stopped our scuffle but also gave a us a moment to breath and collect ourselves for more civilized traveling and interaction. Being restrained from our appendages had the ability to also affect our minds and hearts as well as the mood of the car and our father.  (As a side note, this is still a great parenting strategy that we highly use and encourage)

This example of self control is one that lends itself to the feeling that we may have when we even hear the world self control–a feeling of restraint perhaps, or tightening up. Being aware of ourselves and our surroundings and how they influence one another. This is certainly a part of self control. When we hear the list of the non-fruits of the spirit, or works of the flesh, we know that an element of restraint, moderation and ability to steer clear of things that can drag us into the pits of our beings can be life giving and good for our well being and the well being of those around us. It is much like the idea of the butterfly effect or the chaos theory-that one small flap of a butterfly’s wings can set off a chain reaction that has the ability to create storms of chaos and danger in another part of the world. And much like my dad’s goal was to mitigate chaos in his car, so is the spirit of self control working in our lives to create a way that what we do and how we are in the world restrains from chaos and leads us into abundant life.

Jesus addresses this sense of self control in the gospel today. The disciples have gained insight and even power and they want to use their gifts from Jesus to restrain and smite others. Jesus firmly tells them no, this not the way in which the Holy Spirit works and restraint from lashing out in anger  and instead continuing to make their way towards Jerusalem brings them into a new understanding that following Jesus is not an easy road and it is a road that will walk first in love through the power of the holy spirit that has been infused in them.

So there is a second layer to self control. When we sat on our hands as kids, restrained from participating in chaos and forced into a new moment of calm, it opened up space for something else to move and take shape. When we give ourselves time and space to connect spiritually to God, we give ourselves the space to see the world, situations, circumstances,  with new eyes, to engage the world with new love, and to have the presence and confidence of self to live as Jesus calls us to live as followers of God’s way.

Self control then is more deeply about our connection to all the fruits of the spirit and how we live into them and embrace them as a gift of the Holy Spirit that actually does LIVE in us.  While the chaos theory describes a string of reactions that can lead to destruction, the fruit of self control through the Holy Spirit can set us into positions of creating a string of reactions that lead to being present and in action in the community and world in which God has placed us. When we live into all the fruits of the spirit we can find ourselves looping back around to the beginning, the first fruit of love. In our first sermon in the this series Pastor Michael stated that in the spirit of love, all the other fruits can live. Through love we can be joyful, bring and desire peace, have a sense of patience, goodness, kindness & gentleness, and practice our faithfulness.  And in love, we bring our selves, our beings, our inner thoughts and feelings as well as our outer actions and voice in how we engage our self in the world.

Self control is also about being unrestrained and about what action we do take in the world. As Paul says today in our first verse from Galatians–for freedom Christ has set us free. We are free to be a voice for Christ. We are free to stand firm in the faith and speak a word of truth and grace and love in a broken world. We are free to respond to the person on the street or the one in prison or the bully or the sad or hungry or sick or disillusioned with the gospel–with the promise that God goes even there. We are free in our very selves to know that even when we know we don’t have all the answers–we do know that we have an answer. That the love of God speaks first, comes first, and acts first for us and in us so that we may be connected to this love and bring into our own minds, our families, our households, our communities, our workplaces and school places and sports places and music places, all the places God sends us.

I had an experience in a store this week that served as a reminder to me of the Holy Spirit moving in this way that creates a loop or string of connection to God through the gifts and fruits of the spirit rather than a string of chaos. I was checking out and there was a small issue with a coupon I had. I was consciously being patient and making sure that even though this was going to delay me, that I remembered that being a presence of patience was a gift not just the one who needed patience but myself as well. The woman helping me ended up needing her manager to come and help. I recognized the manager when she approached but thought it was probably because I had shopped there before. After she finished checking me out, she started to get tears in her eyes. She looked at me and said, I know you. I was around during Vacation Bible school. I smiled and said, yes, that is how I know you, I thought you looked familiar. In my mind I was also thinking, oh dear, I hope she isn’t crying about Vacation bible school….She told me that she had just gotten off the phone with the nurse who is with her mom in another state and that she was told that her mother would be going on hospice. She said that when her coworker asked her for help, she wiped her eyes and told herself to get it together, to be in control and strong.

Then she saw me and felt the strength of a God moment before her because she knew she could ask me to pray for her and with her. Of course I sat with her, heard her story and spent time in prayer. Also assuring her that tears are signs of a strength in love and relationship and that we are free to cry and feel and be held in the mercy of God. Self Control in the spirit is not about restraining ourselves from the real love and relationships we have, it is about being present in them and living them fully through God’s spirit.

Turns out this was a God moment on many levels. For one, I didn’t get a ticket 🙂  The gift of the Holy Spirit is one that loops us around, connects us in one time and place for the furtherment of connection in another. A brief meeting in the chaos of VBS can lead to a deep connection of prayer when needed. Donating money to those in need or to creating space for the gifts of the spirit to be cultivated and fed, as we are doing with our building,  can lead to opening doors for people who don’t yet know they need it. A smile and hello to a stranger can bring a sense of connection and peace that lives with them into the next days and weeks. The smallest actions that come from having the presence of self and mind, our own self control to live out the fruits of the spirit, can lead to the big hope, the big love, the big grace of God taking hold of a moment, a life, a community and a world.

May you know the gifts of the all the fruits of the spirit that are infused in you and may God continue to dwell in your deeply so that you may live them for the sake of the world.

Fruits of the Spirit: Growing in Faithfulness

Rev. Leta Arndt Behrens

Sermon Scripture: LUKE 16:1-13

¹Then Jesus said to the disciples, “There was a rich man who had a manager, and charges were brought to him that this man was squandering his property. ²So he summoned him and said to him, ‘What is this that I hear about you? Give me an accounting of your management, because you cannot be my manager any longer.’ ³Then the manager said to himself, ‘What will I do, now that my master is taking the position away from me? I am not strong enough to dig, and I am ashamed to beg. ⁴I have decided what to do so that, when I am dismissed as manager, people may welcome me into their homes.’ ⁵So, summoning his master’s debtors one by one, he asked the first, ‘How much do you owe my master?’ ⁶He answered, ‘A hundred jugs of olive oil.’ He said to him, ‘Take your bill, sit down quickly, and make it fifty.’ ⁷Then he asked another, ‘And how much do you owe?’ He replied, ‘A hundred containers of wheat.’ He said to him, ‘Take your bill and make it eighty.’ ⁸And his master commended the dishonest manager because he had acted shrewdly; for the children of this age are more shrewd in dealing with their own generation than are the children of light. ⁹And I tell you, make friends for yourselves by means of dishonest wealth so that when it is gone, they may welcome you into the eternal homes.
¹⁰Whoever is faithful in a very little is faithful also in much; and whoever is dishonest in a very little is dishonest also in much. ¹¹If then you have not been faithful with the dishonest wealth, who will entrust to you the true riches? ¹²And if you have not been faithful with what belongs to another, who will give you what is your own? ¹³No slave can serve two masters; for a slave will either hate the one and love the other, or be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth.”

Fruits of the Spirit: Growing in Kindness

Rev. Michael Stadtmueller

Sermon Scripture: Luke 10:25-37

²⁵Just then a lawyer stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he said, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” ²⁶He said to him, “What is written in the law? What do you read there?” ²⁷He answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.” ²⁸And he said to him, “You have given the right answer; do this, and you will live.”
²⁹But wanting to justify himself, he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?” ³⁰Jesus replied, “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell into the hands of robbers, who stripped him, beat him, and went away, leaving him half dead. ³¹Now by chance a priest was going down that road; and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. ³²So likewise a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. ³³But a Samaritan while traveling came near him; and when he saw him, he was moved with pity. ³⁴He went to him and bandaged his wounds, having poured oil and wine on them. Then he put him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him. ³⁵The next day he took out two denarii, gave them to the innkeeper, and said, ‘Take care of him; and when I come back, I will repay you whatever more you spend.’ ³⁶Which of these three, do you think, was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of the robbers?” ³⁷He said, “The one who showed him mercy.” Jesus said to him, “Go and do likewise.”

Fruits of the Spirit: Growing in Patience

Rev. Michael Stadtmueller

Sermon Scripture: LUKE 8:4-15

⁴When a great crowd gathered and people from town after town came to him, he said in a parable: ⁵A sower went out to sow his seed; and as he sowed, some fell on the path and was trampled on, and the birds of the air ate it up. ⁶Some fell on the rock; and as it grew up, it withered for lack of moisture. ⁷Some fell among thorns, and the thorns grew with it and choked it. ⁸Some fell into good soil, and when it grew, it produced a hundredfold.” As he said this, he called out, “Let anyone with ears to hear listen!”
⁹Then his disciples asked him what this parable meant. ¹⁰He said, “To you it has been given to know the secrets of the kingdom of God; but to others I speak in parables, so that
‘looking they may not perceive,
and listening they may not understand.’
¹¹Now the parable is this: The seed is the word of God. ¹²The ones on the path are those who have heard; then the devil comes and takes away the word from their hearts, so that they may not believe and be saved. ¹³The ones on the rock are those who, when they hear the word, receive it with joy. But these have no root; they believe only for a while and in a time of testing fall away. ¹⁴As for what fell among the thorns, these are the ones who hear; but as they go on their way, they are choked by the cares and riches and pleasures of life, and their fruit does not mature. ¹⁵But as for that in the good soil, these are the ones who, when they hear the word, hold it fast in an honest and good heart, and bear fruit with patient endurance.

Fruits of the Spirit: Growing in Peace

Deems Hargleroad

Sermon Scripture: JOHN 14:25-31

²⁵I have said these things to you while I am still with you. ²⁶But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything, and remind you of all that I have said to you. ²⁷Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid. ²⁸You heard me say to you, ‘I am going away, and I am coming to you.’ If you loved me, you would rejoice that I am going to the Father, because the Father is greater than I. ²⁹And now I have told you this before it occurs, so that when it does occur, you may believe. ³⁰I will no longer talk much with you, for the ruler of this world is coming. He has no power over me; ³¹but I do as the Father has commanded me, so that the world may know that I love the Father. Rise, let us be on our way.

Fruits of the Spirit: Growing in Joy

Pastor Leta Arndt Behrens

Sermon Scripture: MATTHEW 5:11-16

¹¹“Blessed are you when people revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account ¹²Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
¹³“You are the salt of the earth; but if salt has lost its taste, how can its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything, but is thrown out and trampled under foot.
¹⁴“You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill cannot be hid. ¹⁵No one after lighting a lamp puts it under the bushel basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all in the house. ¹⁶In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.

Fruits of the Spirit: Growing in Love

Robin Ferree

Sermon Scripture: JOHN 21:15-19

¹⁵When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my lambs.” ¹⁶A second time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Tend my sheep.” ¹⁷He said to him the third time, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter felt hurt because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” And he said to him, “Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep. ¹⁸Very truly, I tell you, when you were younger, you used to fasten your own belt and to go wherever you wished. But when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will fasten a belt around you and take you where you do not wish to go.” ¹⁹(He said this to indicate the kind of death by which he would glorify God.) After this he said to him, “Follow me.”

Fruits of the Spirit: A Fruitful God

Rev. Michael Stadtmueller

Sermon Scripture: JOHN 16:12-15

¹²This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. ¹³No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. ¹⁴You are my friends if you do what I command you. ¹⁵I do not call you servants any longer, because the servant does not know what the master is doing; but I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father. ¹⁶You did not choose me but I chose you. And I appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask him in my name. ¹⁷I am giving you these commands so that you may love one another.

¹²I still have many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now. ¹³When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth; for he will not speak on his own, but will speak whatever he hears, and he will declare to you the things that are to come. ¹⁴He will glorify me, because he will take what is mine and declare it to you. ¹⁵All that the Father has is mine. For this reason I said that he will take what is mine and declare it to you.